Amandla okuZingisa: Ezona Ncwadi ziBalaseleyo kuLuleko
Uqeqesho lunokuchazwa njengokuthotyelwa kwemithetho nemigangatho, kwakunye namandla okuzilawula nocwangco umbutho okanye umntu anokuba nalo, nto leyo ekhokelela ekuzuzeni impumelelo. Ikwabhekisa ekusekweni kwemikhwa ekhuthaza ukufezekiswa kweenjongo ezithile, iindlela zokuphila, okanye iikhonsepthi zobuqu nezeqela eziqinisekisa impilo epheleleyo yomzimba neyengqondo.
Le ngcamango iyasebenza kwiimeko ezininzi, ezifana nemfundo, ishishini, imidlalo, ihlabathi lomkhosi, ngokomoya, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kubomi bomntu. Ngokufanayo, kukho iindidi ezininzi zoqeqesho, ezifana nezentlalo, imfundo, kunye nomntu ngamnye. Ukuba ufuna ukufunda ngakumbi ngesi sihloko, sihlanganise uluhlu lwezona ncwadi zibalaseleyo ngoqeqesho.
Ezi zezona ncwadi zibalaseleyo ngoqeqesho
Amandla oqeqesho: Amanyathelo asi-7 okuPhumeza iiNjongo Zakho Ngaphandle kokuxhomekeka kwiNkuthazo okanye kuMmandla. (2022), nguDaniel J. Martin
Le ncwadi iqala kwisiseko esinomdla: sonke sinamaphupha kunye neenjongo, kodwa, Kutheni abanye abantu bebonakala befikelela usukelo lwabo ngokulula kunabanye? Ngaphaya koko, umbhali ukwaphakamisa omnye umbuzo: kwenzeka ntoni ukuba sinalo inkuthazo eyaneleyo, siqala iprojekthi, egcwele ithemba, kwaye emva koko yonke into iyahlukana? Lo mqulu ujolise ekuvuleni indlela yempendulo.
Kukho imiqobo emininzi enokuthi ivele xa uzama ukufezekisa injongo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba siceba kangakanani. Umzekelo, xa inkuthazo ilahlekile, Yintoni esenza siqhubeke? Ukuzeyisa. Ngale ndlela, ukuyilawula kuthetha ukufumana izixhobo kunye neendlela zokufezekisa iminqweno yethu. Phakathi kwazo: ukukhetha injongo efanelekileyo kunye nokusebenzisa amandla akho.
Imikhwa ye-7 yabantu abanempumelelo kakhulu (2013), nguStephen R. Covey
Umthamo kaCovey, phantse ngokungagqibekanga, yincwadi ecetyiswayo yokufunda malunga nokuziphatha kunye nokufikelela kwiinjongo ekuhambeni kwexesha. Umbhali igxininisa kwingcinga yokuba abantu abaninzi bahlala bebanga ukuba banokukwazi ukutshintsha indlela abaziphatha ngayo, emsebenzini nakubomi babo babucala. Nangona kunjalo, bambalwa kakhulu abakwaziyo ukuya phambili.
Ngoko yintoni imfihlelo yokwenene yempumelelo? Ukucacisa oku, umbhali uphakamisa, njengoko kubonisiwe kwisihloko, imikhwa esixhenxe ethi, xa ilandelwa kwileta kunye nexesha elifanelekileyo, ithembisa utshintsho oluhle. Lilonke, La ngamanyathelo asixhenxe ekufuneka umfundi awalandele, awadibanise kwaye awasebenzise eyedwa., ukuziqhelanisa nobuntu bakho kunye nayo nayiphi na indawo yobomi bakho.
Ukuziqeqesha: Iindlela ezisi-7 (abazange bakuxelele) ukuba uKufezekise: Imikhwa ephilileyo eya kubuguqula ubomi bakho ngamandla okuziqeqesha. (2022), nguDavid Valois
Le ncwadi ibandakanya uluhlu lwamanyathelo ngamanyathelo eendlela ezili-17 zokuziphatha kakuhle nokuphumelela kuzo zonke iinzame esizenzayo. Ngamaphepha ayo, Umbhali unika iindlela zokuthi ndlela-ntle kwizizathu, ukonqena, ukuzibekela amangomso izinto, kunye nezilingo.. Lo mqulu ugubungela imixholo enjengale: “Indlela Yokuvuka Kwangethuba Nokuzuza Ngentsasa Yommangaliso,” nothi “Indlela Yokuxhathisa Ukwaneliseka Kwangoko.
Ngokutsho kombhali, nabani na othatha isigqibo sokusebenzisa le ndlela yesinyathelo-nge-nyathelo uya kufezekisa ukunyamezela okungagungqiyo kunye nokunyamezela. Ukwengeza, Isicatshulwa sibandakanya isicatshulwa esithi "Indlela Yokutshintsha Imikhwa ngokuQinisekisa ngoBuchule", "Inkqubo yemihla ngemihla eya kwenza ukuba ube nemveliso ephezulu" kunye "nokuziphatha kakuhle ukuphucula iimali zakho zobuqu." Eyona njongo inkulu kukufumana inkululeko yezemali.
Uzakha njani ukuzeyisa: Sixhathise isihendo kwaye ufezekise iinjongo zakho zeXesha elide. (2016), nguMartin Meadows
Njengoko sele sibonile, uninzi lweencwadi ezikolu luhlu lusekelwe kwimfuneko yokunceda abafundi bacinezele izilingo ezithile, ezinjengokubhenela kwimikhwa emibi, ukutyeba ngokugqithiseleyo, ukuphazanyiswa zizinto ezingeyomfuneko nezinye. Oku kwenzeka ngenxa Ababhali abaninzi bayaqonda ukuba ukuze uphumelele kufuneka uhlale uzolile kwaye ugxile kwinjongo.
Inzululwazi iye yafumanisa uninzi lweyona miba inomdla yokuzeyisa nokuba namandla. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwazo luhlala lungcwatywa phantsi kwamakhulu eetekisi ezintsonkothileyo nezidinayo. Ngaloo ndlela, Into eyenziwa ngumbhali wencwadi ibekwe etafileni olona lwazi lubalulekileyo malunga nesi sihloko.
Incwadi ethi Ingqondo Yakho Ayifuni Kuyifunda: Uyibuyisela njani Ingqondo Yakho ukuze Yonwabe kwaye Uphile Ubomi Obupheleleyo (2019), nguDavid del Rosario
Umphandi uDavid del Rosario ubonelela ngombono omtsha wendlela ingqondo esebenza ngayo kunye nendlela iinkolelo eziphosakeleyo ezichaphazela ngayo ulonwabo kunye nokuphila kwethu. Ngendlela esondeleyo, esekwe kwi-neuroscience, Umbhali uchaza ukuba uninzi lweemvakalelo kunye nezigqibo zabantu azizizo ezethu ngokwenene, kodwa iimpendulo zengqondo ezizenzekelayo ezenzelwe ukusinda, kunokuba ube sempilweni.
Le ncwadi icebisa amacebo okufundisa kwakhona ingqondo, ukukhulisa ukuqonda ngakumbi ngeengcinga kunye neemvakalelo zethu, kunye nokwaphula iipatheni ezisithintelayo. Ngemizekelo yemihla ngemihla, ukuzivocavoca okusebenzayo kunye nesitayela esibandakanyekayo, uDavid del Rosario imema abafundi ukuba bacele umngeni kwiimbono zabo kwaye baphile ngokuzaliseka okukhulu kunye nokunyaniseka.
Indlela ye-Ikigai: Vusa umdla wakho wokwenyani kwaye uzalisekise injongo yobomi bakho (2018), nguFrancesc Miralles kunye noHéctor García
"Ikigai" ligama lesiJapan elingenayo inguqulelo yentsingiselo yesiNgesi. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphakathi kweentsingiselo, oku kulandelayo kuvumelekile: injongo yakho, yintoni ekuvusa ekuseni, yintoni eyenza ubomi bakho bube bufanele ubomi, okanye, ngakumbi, ulonwabo lokuhlala uxakekile. Lo ngumbono waseJapan owenziwe ukususela kumaxesha amandulo e-Okinawa., isiqithi esikumazantsi eJapan apho kukho malunga nama-68 abantu abaneminyaka eyi-100.000 kubemi abali-XNUMX.
Ngokomhloli waseMelika, i-populaurizer kunye nombhali uDan Buettner, ixesha elide le-Okinawans libangelwa yizinto ezininzi, phakathi kwazo eziphumayo: ukutya, imeko yomzimba, amandla anzima kunye nezakhiwo zentlalo, kwaye, kunjalo, injongo yobomi ecacileyo. Le yokugqibela yaziwa ngabahlali njenge-Ikigai, igama elaphefumlela kungekuphela nje incwadi kaFrancesc Miralles noHéctor García, kodwa nayo yonke intanda-bulumko.
